The Post-Thanksgiving Post

Another post about thinking and reflecting on the things for which I'm grateful, albeit one that I have a little more time to write (and I know everyone's impressed with my super-creative titles for all my posts this week! ;))

As I hoped my quick posts earlier this week showed, there is always much to be thankful for, particularly if one lives in this country (U.S. - or any "first world" country, for that matter).  There are many little things that occur throughout our day - things that make our day and lives easier, that gives a moment of laughter, a moment of sincere reflection, a moment of genuine emotion - all moments that we should strive to be continual mindful of their presence.  In some respects though, the moments, events, and people that spark the stronger reactions are easier to remember.  The challenge, I think, is finding that "attitude of gratitude" in the mundane, daily routine of life.

Throughout the daily routine, there can be so much one can take for granted.  Personally, I fear most that I end up taking for granted the people closest to me.  I worry that when you trust and love someone so much, and you know that they love and trust you, you just count on them always being there.  While such is true, I worry about letting that turn into an expectation instead of something to be continually grateful for.

As I sit and write, and reflect on today and this past week, I am grateful for Jackie.  She is my best friend, my confidant, my partner in all ways.  She balances my ups and downs, helps me keep focus during hectic times,  and is always a patient listener (and trust me, it requires patience to listen to me, I tend to be long-winded).  She makes me laugh.  She lets me be who I am, while always pushing me to become a better person.

I talked about how important I view mindfulness earlier this week.  Sometimes, being mindful of what is constant and unchanging is the most difficult; but the most important.  Thus, I strive to be better and being mindful of Jackie's presence in my life, and communicating that gratefulness.

So, today (and everyday), I am thankful for her.